I was married for eighteen years..then one day it was over and i was alone ,really for the first time in my life..I dont consider my self gullible,or at least i didnt..Men are good at lying..and hiding the truth..I have found this out the hard way. There was one I really cared for ..he used me to get his old girlfriend back..My daughter put a curse on him..Then there was Tom..He lied to me about everything..Guess he got what he wanted..and left me feeling the fool..No more..I dont think I will ever trust anyone again..No more taking people at face alue