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Guys, are you dating someone special and you don't
want to lose her like all the others? Are you getting bad vibes because your
girlfriend of six months only gets migraines when you try to kiss her goodnight
at her doorstep? Does it bother you that your wife is meeting too many perverts
in chat rooms on the Internet?
And to you Moms: Do you have a good son or
nephew with a big heart and a big job but he is an idiot with women? Is your
overgrown baby on his third divorce and hasn't a clue? Do half of your grandkids
live in another state with bikers, drinking Coors instead of milk?
If
these apply to you, you're in luck, because there is a new sheriff in
town.
Do you know what men do that women don't? They fight reality in two
areas of their lives. One, they don't ask for directions when lost; and two,
more importantly, they think that all women are illogical and inconsistent. But
these men never ask themselves: "Why is it that certain guys never seem to get
rejected by women or face Divorce Court?" or: "Could I be repeating mistakes
from woman to woman that I am not aware of?" or the best: "Is it possible that
women's choices in men are consistent?"
Successful men know that
happiness in romantic relationships is not due to luck - it's due to using
reliable principles and having a plan. Bill Gates doesn't "wing it" when
deciding which software market to enter - he has a business plan. If you want to
be successful in your long-term romantic relationship, you can't leave them up
to chance, or to astrology, or to the other love doctors who all come from a
female perspective - you need a plan to help you keep Miss Right mesmerized. The
principles that you will get from my column will guide you the way a Thomas
Bros. Map guides a U.P.S. driver to his destination. Guys, if what you've tried
with women is only driving your emotions around in circles and bringing you pain
instead of ecstasy, allow my principles be your road map instead.
The
first concept that I will define is what I call The Reality Factor. It says:
"Things are the way they are. If you go against reality, reality works against
you, resulting in pain." For example, let's say that you decided one day that
there is no Gravity, so you jump off the Empire State Building. While in the
air, you can believe what you want, but when you hit the pavement, you will
realize that you went against reality, resulting in extreme bodily pain. Or
another example: You speed down the 5 Freeway at 120 mph at 2 a.m. with the
lights off, the Reality Factor says you will experience the pain of having to
defend yourself in court. Or another example: your female dates ask you to call
back before the date to "verify," and for some strange reason, these "call back
to verify" dates only end with the dual pains of frustration and
disappointment.
Men in successful relationships move with reality, they
don't fight it. Men, who constantly experience the pangs of rejection, propose
marriage on the first date - over and over and over again.
Rejection,
man's most despised emotion, is the woman's way of telling you, "You turn me
off." Read this column every week and you will never go through this painful
experience again, because from now on, the Reality Factor will be your friend,
not your nemesis.
The kissing cousin of the Reality Factor is the Bottom
Line Factor, which states that: "Only a woman's actions truly reflect her
feelings toward you." Men who are ignorant of this powerful concept rationalize
a woman's slights and put-downs. For example, let's say Caprice breaks a date
with Tom. That week, Tom thinks up 144 possible rosy scenarios of why she broke
her word. He didn't think of Reason 145, the only one that counts, which states
that Caprice has zero interest in him (Dating Rule No. 1: Women with high
Interest always keep dates.).
The Bottom Line Factor also says that if
Tom were reflective and had thought about it, he would have asked himself how
many dates he has broken in his life. Answer? (Hint: less than one.) If, after
some psychological detective work, Tom had discovered that Caprice broke the
date because her father did not give her a bicycle on her tenth birthday like he
had promised; it still wouldn't have made a difference. The Bottom Line Factor
says that if she breaks the date, she is not interested in Tom. Sadly, most men
call back for another beating rather than utilize The Bottom Line Factor.
If you never want to be a guest on the Jerry Springer show, then allow
me protect your heart. If you are a guy who wants to keep Miss Right forever,
and not share her with her good-looking boss or lose her in divorce court - then
please allow me to be your relationship coach.
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